Dating Services Reviews


In the online dating industry, LavaLife seems to land somewhere in the middle. While they provide a clear and easy-to-use home page and some unique features, their essential services aren't as strong as its competitors.'

The site offers more than most sites with its free basic membership and fifteen million members, but communication is limited unless you pay to upgrade your service. It does uniquely allow members to respond to emails and instant messages, but not send them. This gives basic members the opportunity to send a "smile" to a member they like and possibly instigate a conversation they can both participate in. Usually the only way to communicate with other members on a dating site is with a paid membership.

At a more affordable price than many of its competitors, LavaLife does provide a quality service with a massive member database. Offering the main services featured at the popular dating sites along with a few of it's own unique tools and options gives LavaLife the ability to compete well within the online dating industry.

Signing Up
The sign-up process at LavaLife is simple and quick. After entering some basic information such as your email address, birthday, and zip code, you will be taken to your profile creation page. There it will ask you for a nickname, an opening line, a few words about yourself, and a picture. The picture is not necessary, but at LavaLife uploading a picture will give you access to more tools and features on the site. The profile at LavaLife is quite simple and will not allow you to express you personality as well as on other similar sites.

Aside from featuring fifteen million members, your personal member home page is a strong feature in itself at LavaLife. The page clearly lays out the available features and options for the user and brings them all together in one place. The page includes an alerts chart in the corner informing you of any emails, instant messages, views and smiles you have received. The page can be navigated by the tabs at the top of the screen, tabs featuring the main services LavaLife offers its members.

The LavaLife profile database includes three distinct categories of matching: Dating, Relationship, and Intimate. Each category has its own unique focus and its own featured members, but you can feel free to explore each category. If you are interesting in playing the field and meeting a lot of new people, you should spend time browsing through the Dating section. For those of you looking to find a long-lasting, love-filled relationship, you should check out the Relationship section. If you are seeking a simply sexual relationship, you can try your luck with the Intimate section. No matter what you are looking for, you will be able to find something that suits your needs. This feature is unique to LavaLife and allows for a more specified search.

Also unique to LavaLife is its "Party" feature. Each and every day, LavaLife hosts five online parties in which members can gather online, meet, chat, connect, and possibly move forward from there. The most interesting part of this Party features is found in its cost: nothing. Even basic members can enjoy the daily Parties at LavaLife as long as they have uploaded a picture to their profile. After the party has ended, participants can even see their popularity ranking amongst the other people in the party.

Another feature at LavaLife, as mentioned above, is allowing its basic members to reply to messages from paying members. Usually, a site will only allow basic members to send "winks" or "smiles" that simply let the person know your interested. With this feature disabled at LavaLife, basic members will be able to instigate communication with pay members at no cost.

LavaLife also offers Speed Dates, a way for its members to meet ten local singles within thirty minutes. Similar to the online parties, members meet online and spend three minutes chatting with each member they are paired with. If there is a connection, they will have option to let the other person know and open up a thread of communication once the session has ended.

The ClickScore feature at LavaLife is a way for members to connect with other members who find interest in the same things. This is a very basic system that simply searches through its members according to the interests you have entered. Although the system does not match for compatibility like some other competing sites, it does allow users to quickly find other people who enjoy similar activities and interests.

Finally, LavaLife provides a forum section where the members of the site can connect and discuss different subjects from dating to movies. Although you don't need to become a paid member to join in the forums, basic members must upload a picture to participate.

The common problems at LavaLife are not huge, but they do cause some level of annoyance for its members. One of the most consistent problems involves the Instant Messaging and its lack of a "turn-off" feature. Members have no choice but to receive all messages while logged in at the website.

The search engine also includes a small problem. When it attempts to match members with other compatible members, it ignores age preferences. This results in search results including people who could be forty years older than you; most people won't consider that a quality match.

Finally, the site seems like it may have a few problems within its billing and customer service departments. At the Better Business Bureau website, LavaLife received a "C" grade due to twenty-seven complaints against it. According to BBB, ten of the twenty-seven complaints were about billing or collections while six of them were about refunds.

The pricing options at LavaLife are quite limited compared to the other dating services in the industry. For a one-month subscription to LavaLife, they will charge $34.99. If you would like to try it for three months, they will charge $19.99 per month. Those are the only pricing options they offer.

Other Reviews
The reviews for LavaLife are almost universally positive. One of the worst reviews came from who gave the site a 2 out of 5 because so many users are annoyed by not having the ability to turn off instant messaging. The only other negative scores came from user-based review sites where most people only visit to complain. On LavaLife received a 2.5 out of 5. Its score on, where the average score is generally below 2, was a 2.36 out of 5.

At, LavaLife received a 5 out of 5 and was ranked number five on their top one-hundred list.'s editor gave the site a 5 out of 5 while its users gave it a 4.5 out of 5. LavaLife also received a 5 out of 5 from Consumer Search named LavaLife the best casual dating site in 2008 and gave it a 4.5 out of 5.

With a strong backing by its users, a massive database of members, and unique features that rival its main competitors, LavaLife has done a great job of appealing to both serious and casual daters. Whether someone is interested in a long-term relationship or just fun, they can find what they desire at LavaLife. Beyond offering an affordable membership price, they offer their basic members, who pay nothing, a lot of features as well.

Having the ability to communicate with other members on a dating site for free is quite rare. With the chance to reply to paying members' messages, free users can actually communicate and possibly spark a relationship without paying a cent.

LavaLife combines the best of all the dating sites, but still has some problems. It's messaging system has more to be desired and its search engine doesn't include age in its criteria, but overall the site is strong in comparison. You should compare this site with sites like and Yahoo!Personals, where focus is placed more on member quantity as opposed to quality. With unique features like Parties, love-type categories, and free message response for basic members, LavaLife is a quality site that offers just enough to stand out from the rest.